What have you done with your best friend lately?
Thursday, September 2, 2010
River, Beach, Dinner, Repeat
What have you done with your best friend lately?
Saturday, August 7, 2010
Sweet On: All Saints SS 201 Lookbook
- I am obsessed with All Saints.
- I LOVE fall.
What makes All Saints one of my favorite brands is that they incorporate the three colors I consciously keep in my closet: black, gray, and neutral.
All Saints has always been a brand that produces clothing which can be worn up or down, like the Uma Dress, which is made of jersey and worn pretty casual with the Damisi Boots. But I could totally see the Uma with a pair of pumps (of a solid color, because of the acid wash) and some edgy dangle earrings to a dinner date or a baroque social gathering.
And the part about easily moving into fall? This look is perfect to wear during the day when it starts to get a little chilly outside.
Pious Grandad, Devo Skirt, Yalena Socks, and Sand Boot(sold out!)
What do you think of All Saints' SS 2010 lookbook? Are you fiendishly craving fall like me?
xoxo
Fennec
Sunday, July 25, 2010
Playlist Fixations
I'm all about remixes. And I'm all about remixes to If You Seek Amy, my other favorite is the Mike Rizzo version.
Strawberry Swing by Coldplay
I was surprised to find that this song is off of their most recent album, because it sounds like their earlier work. I love how Coldplay has the ability to uplift and inspire on just the music alone, and have that lyrics can leave you dumbfound.
Another Day by Dragonette
I've loved Dragonette ever since hearing I Get Around, I thought that their music was just tongue&cheek/naughty, but Another Day is sweet and dreamy.
Phantom Limb by The Shins
Almost any Shins song makes me think of summertime Along with that, Phantom Limb makes me want to dance with my sweetie.
Don't Fall Softly by Filthy Dukes
This was on a mix that a DJ friend made for me. I love house and electro house music. This is a nice song to dance to or just have in the background while your working.
Do you use Pandora? Any songs on repeat?
xoxo Fennec
Rooting For the Underdog
It seemed like at the blink of an eye my groups of "friends" were totally against this girl. It first started from some stupid guy; the ringleader Stephanie liked/dated him and then he turned his attention to Laura. The rule was to hate her, so we ignored her. Then the rule was to torture her. We relentlessly picked on her: starting rumors, giggling in the hallways, ugly notes, face-to-face badgering. I include myself in this because not only was I associating myself with these girls by calling them my friends, but one day I made Laura cry. That day something clicked in my head, I laid off and faded into the background, and any further shit talking I kept myself out of.
That next school year I found amazing friends who I actually had things in common with on a creative level. One of them was Laura. In fact 8 years later Laura and I are still friends, while I haven't talked to one of the mean girls since. And yes, I apologized for all the horrid things I did.
Ever since then I've always rooted for the underdog. Those are often the people who'd rather spend their time creating something and achieving their dreams. The people who decide whats going to be in style for the season, who will sit and bond with an album at 2am, and those who intrigue the world. I'm talking about the people who are so quirky and different, from the hermit crab types to those who are loved by many but understood by few. They are too busy manifesting a amazing life than to judge how others are living theirs. Underdogs are often at some point rejected and mistreated by their peers, because people can be so damn jaded. It can sometimes not be a easy rode to ride on, but ultimately it is well worth it, and so much more fun!
From my decision to root for the underdog I have become a Underdog myself. Being a Underdog is pretty much choosing to live your life for your happiness rather than for what society tells you to. Its recognizing that I'm the only Fennec that will ever be, so I better be me, be happy about it, and have fun. You choose love over fear, truth over "fact", and positivity over doubt. And do you want to know a mind blowing secret:
Have you ever been a Underdog?
xoxo Fennec
Saturday, July 17, 2010
To Be Yourself...
Thursday, July 15, 2010
Makeup Look: Brick Red
- Urban Decay eyeshadow primer
- MAC Brick Red eyeshadow (matte) all over lid
- MAC Tete-A-Tint (matte) in crease
- MAC Blanc Type (matte^2) on brow
- Urban Decay Yeyo eyeshadow (matte) under brow
- Urban Decay liquid liner in Perversion
- MAC knol liner in Fascinating
- MAC lashes No. 4
- Duo lash glue
Since my eyes were the focal point, I went softer everywhere else. I chose Bobbi Brown's Pot Rouge in Calypso Coral to wear on my cheeks, and what makes this product extra awesome is that you can wear it on your lips too, which I did also. My complexion is MAC Studio Sculpt Concealer and Laura Mercier Silk Crème Foundation. The Silk Creme has great coverage, but literally makes your face a blank canvas, to I added definition with MAC Pro's Sculpting Powder. Brows filled with Urban Decay's Brow Box in Brown Sugar.
What do ya think? Whats your take on matte eyeshadows? Whats your favorite brand(s) of eyeshadow?
xo Fennec
Sunday, July 11, 2010
How To Own Your Heels, Not The Other Way Around.
There are 5 factors to keep in mind when you buy heels:
- Do you love them?
You must love the heels that you buy. Not like, love. Its a big commitment to wear heels, and if you only like the pair of tan suede clogs you just bought, you'll be more inclined to look right over them in your collection. Thus they collect spider webs and dust and you just wasted $40 or more. If your heart doesn't skip a beat/race and your not dreaming about all the fabulous outfits you can create with those clogs, move on. - Are they your style?
Trends come and go, but style, especially personal style that has been polished to your exact liking: is eternal. Make sure that the heels you buy reflect you. - Be reasonable.
There is no need to put yourself in debt for a pair of heels. Buy what you can afford or save up. If the pair that you are dying for (but is out of your price range) just came out, give it a month, and watch the knock-offs pop up. You can find a cheaper version of the signature Christian Louboutin pumps in any color just about anywhere. I bought a pair for $39. Really!
Also, don't buy doubles. Keep it real: yes a pair of simple black pumps is a stable. Three pairs is not. If those strappy gold sandals look just like the ones you have at home except for the rhinestone detail: move on. - Buy the right size!
So they don't have your size, but they do have the next size up. And you think "Well I could stuff in some shoe cushions and then they'd fit like a dream!" I am totally guilty of doing this (5 and 5.5 can be hard finds) and from my personal experience I seriously advise to buy only your size. When heels fit like a glove, walking is much easier, but when you try to make a size work that isn't for you accidents are much more likely. A size too big tends to feel a little wobbly and a size too small just hurts. If your size is not available look elsewhere or for a different pair. - Are they a comfortable height for you?
2-3 -inches are the easiest, and best for beginners.
4-5 -inches are for pros, you need to have your walk down or accidents could be very ugly.
5 1/2 and up- more power to ya! But not advised for anything other than occasional costume-oriented events.
Foot cushions, shoe soles, jellies, inserts- what ever you want to call 'em. Go to target, amazon, or just about any shoe store and buy in bulk. They come in all shapes, sizes, and cuts so that you can add comfort to any painful spot in your shoes. I'm known to have 2-3 pairs of cushions in one pair of sandals, especially if they are just one size up (naughty naughty!). I love to buy these cushions and the jelly ones from Aldo.
It also helps to try them on first, but in the day and age of Internet shopping, its not always a option. Make sure to read a sites return policy before purchasing anything, just in case.
There are 5 golden rules to owning your heels:
- A walk.
Stand up straight, lean back ever-so- slightly, relax your shoulders and walk at your own pace. Practice makes perfect. If your talking really hard steps you're either: walking too hard or too tense. Allowing yourself to feel sexy gives your walk personality. - Know the lifespan.
I'm talking about how long your feet will last. Sometimes no matter how many foot cushions you use or how great they feel for the first hour, you will find that some shoes fall into certain time frames:
- 4-5 hour
- 5-6 hour
- 5-6 hour (minimal walking/standing)
- all day
- all day (with minimal walking/standing) - Practice makes perfect.
Take a few moments to walk around in your new stilettos before debuting them. This will help you figure out where to put cushions if any are needed and what the lifespan is. - A killer outfit.
If your not used to incorporating heels into your attire or you're still getting your look down, do some research. Buy a few fashion magazines, look at pictures of your style muses to see how they wear their heels, see how other girls wear their pumps on sites like lookbook.nu and chictopia.com. Some brands also come out with their own lookbooks, so give that the once over. Grab inspiration anywhere you can: best friends, coworkers, strangers you see downtown! Then put some outfits together, take pictures and see what works. - CONFIDENCE!
For your walk, you outfit, your heels, and even your day to have a fighting chance, you gotta feel confident. Heels are a great way to build confidence because they elongate the body, tighten the butt, dress up a outfit, and help cultivate your style. Think of yourself as the chicest gal in town, who could stomp on anyone who gets in her way with her 4' heel, but doesn't bother because she's too busy being a successful glamazon.
xoxo Fennec
Tuesday, June 22, 2010
Don't Sweat It: Stay Matte All Summer Long
Summer is here, and while some of us might prefer to stay out of the sun (like yours truly), avoiding the sun in no way guarantees having no sheen. Summer= hot = persperation=> yo face! And even if you're a sun bunny or don't wear any makeup to worry about melting, you probably still don't want your face to look as oily as a cheese pizza. Here are some products I recommend to stay matte chic during summer.
Anything "De-Slick" by Urban Decay
Okay, okay... so yes, I work for UD, but that does not take away from the fact that De-Slick products seriously get the job done.
De-Slick Oil control Makeup Setting Spray
New to the Urban Decay family, De-Slick setting spray that is meant to be sprayed after your full makeup application. Setting your foundation, blush, brows, eyeshadow, and lip color. Along with keeping you gloriously matte, it also: lasts for 16 hours, has temperature control so your makeup is maintained under the heat, and waterproof.
De-Slick Mattifying Powder
If you like to keep it "old school" with a mattifying powder, De-Slick powder comes in a cute compact, reduces redness, and works better than rice paper.
De-Slick in a Tube
My personal favorite! De-Slick in a tube can be applied before and after makeup application. One of the key ingredients that makes this product so amazing is clay, which sucks up existing oil and keeps possibly shine at bay. I like to apply this with a brush when my makeup starts took too shiny for my liking. Seriously, my makeup stays matte for hours.
MAC
Prep + Prime Transparent Finishing Powder
The color is universal, reduces fine lines, minimizes pores, and makes foundation look flawless.
Blot Film
Better than rice paper, doesnt more makeup, and great on the go! Another personal favorite.
Benefit
Dr. Feel Good
Great for those who don't have to worry about oil too much or don't wear any makeup. Great smell, great texture, contains Vitamin C. Apply with fingers or a brush.
Bobbi Brown
Natural Finish Long Lasting Foundation Spf 15
This is a oil-free foundation that acts as a mildly mattifed second skin. Natural Finish blends easily, lasts all day, and stays decently matte. Add Blot Film to your purse and you'll be good all day.
Do you have any summer oil-control tools? Have you tried any of these? Lemme know!
xoxo, Fennec
Wednesday, June 16, 2010
Revv Wednesday: June 16th, 2010
Santa Tanita, Lush's Lemon Flutter, facials, new readers, sweet emails, cute text messages, 10 Things Carrie Bradshaw Taught Me About Fashion, and fantastic make overs!
Tuesday, June 15, 2010
Women Who Dont Like Women
As we all grow older (becoming pre teens to teens, teens to young adults, young adults to *BAM!* adults) there comes a point in time where all your actions are really your own. To me, any actions that are rude, inconsiderate, and/or ugly are completely inexcusable. Sure we all have a bad day and can fly off the handle for a second, but when you blatantly act immature like a damn 16-year-old, I'm not cutting you any breaks.
Examples:
- Constantly acting like your life is shit. Such as: throwing tantrums about circumstances, the "woe is me" talk, constantly giving out weak needy smiles to anyone who might allow you to complain about your life for 3 minutes.
- Harassing any one. Period.
- Inserting yourself + drama into a ex's new relationship.
- Being completely disrespectful with first impressions.
Now, while my list could go on, but I'll just stop at the last one, because it's the one that's fueling the fire of this post. I can't stand women who don't like other women!
I totally understand if you're the type of chick who has more guy friends, or who just find it easy to have less estrogen in her life, or that you just like to keep your circle of female friends small. These are women who will keep themselves at a distance, but still be polite. What I don't, and refuse to understand, is why any woman would act like a bitch to another woman, upon the first time meeting her.
"Rudeness is the weak man's imitation of strength". ~Eric Hoffer
Let me elaborate.
A friend of mine, who is so amazing, inspiring, and fun, would constantly talk about her best friend Nadia who lived about 2 hours away from our town. My friend would constantly talk about how chill of a person Nadia was, how she always has her back, and how she's so fun to have a night on the town with. She also told me that Nadia is weary of other girls. I brushed that off, thinking "Oh, that just means she'll be a little reserved at first but if she's best friends with "so-and-so" she'll love me", and I suggested that we all hangout some time.
Now after months and months of hearing about Nadia, I finally got to meet her. It was upon this meeting that I understood the The Universe had kept her away from me for so long. See, I only attract amazing, loving, inspiring people into my life, Nadia, gave me the once over, a half assed handshake that any parisienne would spit on, and completely ignored me after that. No smile, and defiantly no eye contact. I was floored. This chick, who I heard about for months about how awesome she was? I couldn't even believe that my friend could even tolerate her.
After that meeting, I thanked The Universe for keeping her away from me, for all the amazing girlfriends I have in my life (I <3 you!), and moved on. I even met her a 2nd time while out at a bar with said friend. Second time I was completely ignored, and I laughed.
"Women who don't like women": because we are not in high school anymore, you need to grow up.
Why do they act this way?
These women so crippled by their own insecurities, that they treat almost every woman they come in contact with like shit. Why? Because they are threatened and too immature to act with any common sense. SILLY! We are all beautiful in our own special ways and comparing ourself to another is insane.
My advice:
The woman-hater: Be nice. Shake her hand with some integrity. Smile, "say nice to meet you". You don't have to like sugar and sunshine, you don't even have to forge a full on conversation (but why not? you might actually *GASP!* get along the other woman), but being cold and rude is not an option. Act with some class, act with some grace. If you can't be charming at least be tolerable. Then go home, grab a journal and pen, and do some serious soul splurging as to why you feel the need to act so catty towards other woman.
You, the super chic, charming super woman: Smile, be the amazing, loving gal you are, and remember that her actions towards you have nothing to do with you. Then have a coffee date with one or more of your fabulous girlfriends.
What do you think about women hating women? Have you ever been treated nasty by another gal before? Have you been the nasty gal before? Do tell...
xoxo Fennec
Wednesday, June 9, 2010
Revv Wednesday: June 9th 2010
Dirty House music. I've been going to a lot of shows and it's SO MUCH FUN. Theres nothing like dancing all night. I prefer dirty house, it has a little more bass and house seems a little too raver for me, at least the shows are, I love the house music on its own. I went to the kick off of Kaskade's Dynasty Tour, and while it was SO fun, the scene was a little intense for me. While the week before that at Bassnectar it was juuuust right.
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Being a pescetarian. I accidentally ate chicken a few weeks ago (didn't make me sick thank GOD!), but after eating it I thought "I'm good". Meat actually does not appeal to me. I seriously enjoy eating veggies and fruit, with some seafood here and there. And I enjoy eating HEALTHY. Thats something I never thought I would say, but when I eat fried, greasy food more thank once or twice a week, I feel crabby and bloat-y. Eating healthy makes me feel good.
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Drinks with girlfriends, finishing a book (just finished Add More -ing To Your Life. ehhh), Coldplay -Parachutes, the new starter in my car, pink rabbits foot, Health & Harmony makeovers, MAC eyelashes (I have fallen in love with them again), white bean hummus,NASTYGALS profile on Taylor Price, friends on summer break= coming home for summer!, aaaaand hug bags of assorted wild feathers.
That hot pic of Miranda Kerr also comes with a seductive music video:
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xoxo Fennec
Tuesday, June 8, 2010
Animal Lovin
You think pictures of lions cuddling with their young is a fluke? Or that a mouse riding care free on an animals back is a setup? Oh no no no no. When an animal decides to trust you or recognizes that you are taking care of it, the love that comes from them to you can warm even the coldest heart. They are always happy to see you, they always want to show affection by nuzzling you in some way, and when you leave, they always look forward to your return.
So when your feeling low, like no one cares about you, look into your pets eyes. Go to a shelter and play with some lonely animals. Sit on a bench and feed some birds. What about taking a neighbors dog for a walk? While people, wrapped up in their own egos, can seem to take your love and time for granted, animals will appreciate and remember the attention you gave.
xoxo Fennec
Friday, May 21, 2010
Revv Me Up Wednesday
Teepees, Holier than Now, apps for my iPod touch, sleeeep!, Thai ice tea, reliable friends, giant lollipops, watching The Secret again and again, going to the park and watching the sunset/stars, typing my blog posts at a coffee-house on my Ipod touch (which makes me love technology a little bit more), spring rain falls, snuggling <3, Algues, bobbi brown's Natural Finish Long Lasting SPF 15 Foundation.
Whats Revving you up this week?
xoxo Fennec
Wednesday, May 19, 2010
Guess Whos Back!
Hello loves! So sorry that I have not updated in weeks. I had a personal situation that needed to be dealt with and the inspirational juices just weren't flowin.
But now I am back, recharged, with lots of hot ideas. Stay tuned and thanks to everyone who checked in with me via email!
xoxo Fennec
Monday, May 17, 2010
5 Things I Want Right Now
This girls hair (feather hair accessory included):
To have dinner with Ashley of the edible perspective.
To go to Bonnaroo. Oh that would be so AMAZGING!
To visit one of the places on f*ckyeahghosttowns:
What about you?
xo Fennec
Wednesday, May 5, 2010
Can't, Not, Won't, and Don't
Seriously! You unconsciously breathe, but there is a thought in your brain sweeping through your respiratory system telling you to breath. Just as your brain consciously tells your lips to pose a seductive smile and your eyes to give a cute wink to that gorgeous bartender in the hopes that he'll give you a free drink. You want to breath, you want to wink. But what about what you don't want?
While a quick thought of "I'm not going to go out tonight" wont magically take you from your bed to the dance floor, continuously thinking "I'm not going to let her bring me down. I'm not going to let her bring me down" will flare your emotions. Causing anything that persons says to be insulting. Stressing that you "can't get sick" will bring your down with the negative infliction, but mentally exclaiming "I'm healthy!" will energize the mind and body.
Positive thinking isn't some New Age mumbo jumbo. Its something that the most talented and inspiring people live by. Living with a positive mind will take you from the bottom of the barrel to the top of the highest mountain, up to the stars. Learn about any rags to riches story, you'll find that even at the worst of times, the diamonds in the rough knew that they would make it and knew that they were strong.
If you feel like you must use a negative word, make sure to incorporate a positive part at then end. Example:
"I'm not going to fall for <so and so's> games, because I am strong."
So now, when you think about what you don't want, your also including what you do want. Making your desired outcome more possible because your not mentally psyching yourself out. At some point just emphasize on the positive:
"I am strong. I am strong. I am STRONG!"
Need some help with some positive affirmations? When you find yourself in a "Can't, Not, Won't, and Don't" moment add a "because..." and insert:
- I am smart.
- I am mature.
- I am wise(r).
- I am worth more.
- I deserve more.
- I know what I want.
- I am talented.
- I am amazing.
- I ROCK!
Heres some links to dig a little deeper:
- The Law Of Attraction
- Staying optimistic 'keeps you healthy'
- How to Be a Positive Person, in Under 300 Words
- The Positivity Blog
xoxo Fennec
Tuesday, March 23, 2010
Dream Trip: Bonnaroo Pt. 2
I feel like the outfit you wear to any festival is as crucial as the bands you choose to see. Theres so many things to take into consideration:
- weather
- genre of music
- type of town
- type people
Now this isn't to say that you shouldn't dress the way you want, or that you should censor your personal style. But I personally wouldn't wear anything with long sleeves if the weather is going to be anything above 80 degrees. And I wouldn't suggest wearing cute strappy gladiator sandals to a metal show, because if you end up in the pit, your feet are going to be stomped on, hard. You also wouldn't see me wearing a short skirt in Oakland after a festival ends at 11. I also would not advise wearing any of those upside down cross jewelry to a christian rock show, just out of respect.
I'm not pointing this out to make you scared or nervous, I'm just suggesting to use some common sense. If your not sure about an outfit, bring a change of clothes. You'll get a feel for everything once you hit the parking lot and see all the people walking around.
Now, onto my Bonnaroo outfits! Bonnaroo is a 5 day event, so, I've made outfits for each day.
I have my own pair of the Steve Madden cowboy boots shown above. I currently have a obsession with cowboy boots, and you will see that in some of the outfits!
I'm also stubborn about shoes. I can't stand sneakers, and the only time you will ever see me wearing running shoes out of the house is at the gym. I love heels, boots, and flats, so I chose a pair of cut out black wedges. The wedge will be comfortable enough to wear all day (for pro heel wear-ers) and the cut out will keep feet from over heating.
Friday, March 19, 2010
Dream Trip: Bonnaroo
What makes is even better is that Bonnaroo is held in Tennessee. Manchester, Tennessee to be exact. Just 60 miles of Nashville, Tennessee, a place where I would love to be and plan on moving to someday (This would be my 2nd wish.). Oh my, I love the south, I love the accents, and I love rock n roll.
So who would I want to see at this amazing 5 day event?
- Norah Jones (Have you heard her new album The Fall? It's amazing.)
- The Dead Weather
- Conan O'Brien
- Kings Of Leon (I'm such a huge dorky fan of them!)
- Tenacious D (I've been a fan of them ever since I saw The Pick of Destiny.
- Damian Marley and Nas (Say whaaaa?!?!)
- Regina Spektor
- She & Him
- OK Go (Because I like to shake my booty;))
I know the list is short, but more artist are going to be announced as the festival gets closer. I love being around music, and going to live shows will help you discover, respect, and love a band. Seriously, I did NOT like System Of A Down, but after Ozzfest I had SO MUCH respect for them because they put on an amazing show. I would pay to see them again.
What To Pack?
- The tickets
- Aviators
- Card holder
- Water
- Lucky Strikes (Yes, I'm a smoker. And yes, I only smoke the best.)
- Lighter
- Gum
- Camera
- Keys
- Cellphone
- Urban Decay Jesse Pocket Rocket
What about you? What are your dream trips for the summer? Any festivals? Regular Concerts? Road trips? Do tell!